7 Reasons Why My Boyfriend Must Believe in God

Instead of starting off with some word foreplay, let’s hop straight into why my boyfriend must believe in God.

  1. Because I believe in God.
  2. Because I’d feel like it’d be a slap in God’s face to date someone who didn’t believe in His existence.
  3. Because God has done so much in my life that I couldn’t date someone who couldn’t understand and appreciate the magnitude of His greatness.
  4. Because I want my future children to have a relationship with God and that’d be weird if everyone in their immediate family gooned for God except for their father.
  5. Because I like going to church and don’t want to be one of those women that attends while their husband is constantly MIA.
  6. Because I think growing together with someone spiritually is just as attractive as growing together amiably and romantically. I actually think it strengthens those two.
  7. Because if God tells me to do something that isn’t conventional, I don’t have time to explain it to someone who couldn’t support me regardless.

Simply put, we gotta be equally yoked we’re going to be together. 2 Corinthians 6:14 states that you shouldn’t be joined together with an unbeliever. If the core to my existence stems from my belief in God, my boyfriend must understand that I am truly invested in Him. And I would expect the same thoughts from him. Hebrews 11:6 says it’s impossible to please God if you don’t believe in Him. Because God has been in my life a lot longer than some fly-by-night, I rather please Him than him.

I don’t think this is asking for too much.

Credits: D.u.m.b Robo/BAKErsville

Dress for the Job You Have AND the Job You Want

“Dress for the job you want, not the job you have.”

Yea, no.

This quote is stupid and faux-aspirational because it assumes that company atmosphere in regards to your work attire changes once you climb the ladder. Like the interns and entry-level schmucks wear jeans and the CEO comes in wearing suits. Chances are, if you work in a business-casual environment, everyone is dressed as such. Or if you work for a tech company where everyone wears jeans, including the CEO, why would you, a tech-person, get your good clothes dirty by going off a bogus saying?

Or let’s assume that you work for a restaurant or food chain that has uniforms. The boss may come in wearing  business casual clothes, but you have a uniform. Do you want to get fired because you felt all inspired to dress like your boss when there are corporate and sanitation guidelines that require you to wear a specific outfit? And are you really trying to be the general manager of that location of Wendy’s? (No shade if so.)

You can figure out the company atmosphere and what the general level of professionalism the attire your position calls for through the interview process. If you can’t decode the office style, then be safe and wear a business casual suit on the first day. Once you get in, you will know what to wear and how to fit in. And by doing that, you’ll look ready for the job you have and the job you want.

#BrandMe: How to Brand Yourself in the Modern World

My friends often ask me how I, a twenty-four year old undergraduate student, stay so active in the job market. I have found that anyone can type a list of past work experiences and provide a list of references. The real question is what are you selling to job recruiters? In today’s job market, it is important to learn how to brand yourself. Most people see the word brand and think of companies and famous celebrities. They are not the only ones that need to brand themselves. To set yourself apart from the average resume and cover letter, you must find your niche and transform it into an entity. Below are five steps on how to transform you into a brand.

Decide what you want to represent.

The biggest issue that recruiters have with finding talent is that the job seeker has not clearly defined what they bring to the table. Hiring managers get lost in the long list of skills. Imagine you are in a networking event with a room full of top executives—in 10 words, what would you tell them that you can provide for their organization? Think about what it is you want to accomplish in the immediate future. If you want to be a software developer, be the expert on the latest technology and applications so that the conversation is effortless when you are networking.

Creating a presence among your peers.

Now that you know what you represent and you are an expert in your field, you must create a space for yourself within your industry. Yes, I said, “create a space.” Most people will tell you to sit back and wait for an opportunity to arise, but waiting is for those that don’t know how to create a window. You will need to start by networking with in your industry. The cheapest form of publicity is word of mouth. Get your name to the right people at the right time by telling them, “Hi, my name is Kelly and I am a software developer.” Create your conversation from there. This could be the difference between a job offer and a new unfilled job listing.

Develop your brand.

Once you have created a presence amongst your peers, you are ready to develop your presence amongst your competition. This is when you stop talking about what you can do and produce a portfolio to showcase your abilities. Creating a brand doesn’t begin with business cards; it begins with the work and the marketing comes after.

Marketing you.

Marketing yourself is the easiest part of the branding process. Make a resume that stands out from your competition. Add a personal logo or a splash of a color. Find a creative friend (if you’re not to the task) to create you a one-of-a-kind resume. Establish your social media presence that places you in a positive light and showcases your brand. Have professional pictures taken that allows you to have a sleek and refined appearance online.

Be creative.

My last tip is to be creative and be true to you. When you create your own brand, you want to find creative ways to stay relevant in your industry. Do some charity work with your dream company. Maintain an active relationship with the friends in your network. Lastly, continue to think of creative ways to refine and redefine your personal brand.

These tips are just the start of the world of personal branding and they are great ways to make you stand out. Know this as well; if there is no window or door for you to walk through in your career, you will always have the ability to create one. What are some other ways you can think of to brand yourself in today’s society?

Credits: Scott Kellum