Walking Away is So Hard: Why I Stayed

At some point I knew he wasn’t who I wanted him to be. But I stuck through it−him going on a weekend vacation with his ex, not having money to pay for dinner, not texting me when he returned from a trip out of town, and forcing me up against a wall as he wanted […]

Why I Thought I’d Become His Girlfriend

There was a period in college when I dated (and I say dated somewhat loosely) someone who kept me in the bae zone. By that, he never would completely “commit” and came up with many excuses to defend his position. Being the naive and #unchose girl that I was, I stayed and dealt. Years later, […]

Pay Attention to the Signs: Why He’s Not The One

Do any of the following sound familiar? “He takes too long to call/text me back.” “We talked all night, but mostly it was about his ex-girlfriend.” “He sent me a few DMs and then nothing.” “He hits me up after I have gone to bed.” “I haven’t seen him since the night we met.” “He […]