The Coworkers You Need to Befriend

Okay, so you just got to this new job and you don’t know anybody. The Black folks you work with have been cordial but they’re still feeling you out so you haven’t pulled a new bestie yet. That’s fine. There is still time. And you’re not trying to force┬álifelong friendships anyway; you just want someone […]

No One Owes You Anything

I’m funny about birthdays. I want you to know it’s my birthday without actually telling you. Which is why I took my birthday off Facebook four years ago and why I was almost upset that one year, none of my coworkers made a big to-do and took me out for lunch. I “accidentally” let it […]