Big Girls Don’t Cry…Except When They Do

So there’s this old song that I remember from the opening of Dirty Dancing (one of my favorite movies as a child, so just try to follow me here). It’s called, “Big Girls Don’t Cry” by Frankie Valli & The Four Seasons. It popped into my head recently because I went through a situation that […]

Why I’d Rather Do Without the Facebook Relationship Status

Let’s face it; in today’s dating world, it means a lot to some women to become what is called “Facebook official” with their beaus. It’s almost like the engagement ring of a budding relationship—you go to Facebook and update your profile to read “in a relationship” and then you smile absentmindedly as you then type […]

Statistics Surrounding Black Women and Domestic Violence

Currently, a Vine of a Black woman being slapped out of her chair by a Black male is going viral around #BlackTwitter (the Vine is purposely not linked). Now normally, we at unchose don’t normally go the route of shameless relevancy, but the statistics behind Black women and domestic violence are extremely troubling and need to be […]